• I have been using the same Franklin Planner since 1996.  It's green leather and my Dad and Christy got it for me for Christmas my Junior Year of College.  I love it.  Every year I hike in to the Franklin Covey store and buy myself the new "filler" pages where I organize everything about my life.  I've been a hold-out when it comes to new technology.  I liked having my handwriting on my calendar!  But just recently I've come around to the new way of thinking and decided I would be willing to go digital, which of course (I told Derek) would need to involve either a Blackberry or an IPhone (of course!).

    So on Tuesday night he surprised me with an IPhone of my very own.  I can play with it on our trip!  I'm so excited and have already been getting free apps and downloading my Itunes.  Very fun.  And my boys are equally excited since it's a constant source of entertainment.

    My trusty Franklin will continue to have a role through the rest of the year, but will then be retired.  It's been a good and reliable friend.  Maybe I'll have it bronzed.

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  • I love this holiday…and this year was no exception.  I love celebrating our country.  I love the colors.  I love the feeling and the food.  And I love a parade!!  So we went to downtown McKinney to see the "hometown" parade.  It was nothing fancy, but it was fun.  And Samuel was enthralled!

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    Afterwards, we walked down to the very crowded classic car show…the big boys all enjoyed that.  Samuel and I tried to find shade!

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    Then we headed home because it was SO hot that it was no longer enjoyable.  We napped, got some things done and then headed to my Mom and Steve's for a lovely and delicious steak dinner.  We hung out and then tried to get closer to the fireworks.  Fun times.

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    Fireworks were past Sam's bedtime!

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  • My friend, Shelley, who is an amazing photographer, told me once that while at a photographer's retreat she heard some photographers using the term M.W.A.C. as a snub.  Moms With A Camera. 

    That's what I am – and proud of it.  Mom. With. A. Camera.

    Let's face it – anyone, and I do mean ANYONE, can be a photographer these days.  Take a photography class, buy a nice camera and learn to use the endless number of digital editing softwares, and you're set.  Editing can make almost any picture look good!  Am I right?!

    I think the real talent comes in capturing emotion and relationships.  Knowing lighting and angles.  Having an "eye" for it.  And in my opinion, not just anyone can capture all of those things.  But I certainly raise my hat for those that try…I think our modern technology makes photography fun and inviting.

    But I am just a M.W.A.C.  Never have taken any photog classes.  Probably won't.  I barely read the camera manual – just the bare necessities.  The only thing I know about lighting is that the sun is a better source of it than a flash.  The only thing I know about angles is that you should try not to let a light pole stick out of someone's head.  And any time I've caught a picture that shows relationship or emotion it is out of PURE luck, not genius.

    So when my friend Kristan, a former marketing VP, asked me to take pictures of her for her new business website (she and two partners are now consulting), I explained to her all of the above.  And she said, "but you're free, right?" (just kidding, she didn't really say that).  THAT I AM!  Free, indeed.  So we did it!

    And it was fun to pretend that I am a budding photographer (although, again, I am not and never will be).  And I think out of the 50 pics we took (err on the side of too many is my motto), there will be at least ONE that she can use.

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  • This was our first week of quintessential summer…sleeping in (7 or 8 am), going to the library (12 books), eating lunch at Del's Frozen lemonade (hot dogs and frozen lemonade – yum), staying up late, playing outside (in 100 degree temps), seeing movies, playing at the pool (although it was temporarily halted because of fecal contamination, just one more reason why I should have my own pool), and just doing whatever we want!

    We're working on cleaning up, de-cluttering and re-arranging the game room and media room (the second game room).  It's still not done.

    I'm trying to get CDs burned of my Girls camp slideshow, but it's giving me ALL kinds of fits and hours of work.

    I'm trying to read three books at the same time, which is hard to do when you also have three boys.

    We've already had our A/C go out downstairs, and when the guy looked at it he discovered that the last guys who worked on it (in Feb) had wired it wrong and had the fan going the wrong direction!  Thankfully it was an easy (and cheap) fix.

    And we're planning our 10-day, 9-state, 2600-mile road trip that starts next week.  Excited about that and all of the possibilities!

    So far…it's a great summer.

    Here's a picture of the boys outside yesterday with 4 other neighbor boys.  They were all complaining of it being hot and said they wanted to come inside.  But I was raised by Nancy Haymond Robinson Lawson, who said that in the summer you "play OUTside" (and even locked us out once to prove her point!)…so I made them stay OUTside.  But I felt sorry for them (even though they were in the shade) and took them out a big bowl of ice with a box of Mike n Ike's poured in.  I threw it on the trampoline and let them at it.  It cooled them off, plus they loved the candy. 

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    And these two look like miniature versions of Mr. T!  It's shirtless season at the Smith house.  And I have no idea where Caleb got these necklaces, but he's worn them EVERY day this week.  Just yesterday Samuel realized he had two and begged for one. 

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    Today I'm off shopping with my Mom and anticipating my second favorite holiday tomorrow!  Happy Fourth!

  • Since I finally (FINALLY!) got around to making my family a decent, nutritious, oven-baked dinner tonight (honey mustard chicken, brown rice, steamed broccoli and carrots) AND since I can finally (FINALLY!) see my kitchen counters for the first time this MONTH (it's the last day of June, people, and I'm not kidding), I will NOW post about the last day of school, which happened the first week of this month, but let's just celebrate the fact that this post is happening at all.  Was that a run-on sentence?

    Anyway…

    Caleb had the BEST year of Kindergarten.  Not only was his teacher a girl that I used to live next door too (still reeling from that 10 months later), she was the sweetest and most loving Kindergarten teacher EVER.  On the last day of school she played a slide show of her class to music and I stood in the back weeping (I had to steal a paper towel from the play kitchen!).  I was sad because I love Kindergarten…where else can you dress up like frogs or decorate your classroom like a barn!  But I was also SO sad to have to say goodbye to Mrs. Ann Marie Tennison as Caleb's teacher.  She is so devoted and hard-working.  She was creative and fun.  She laughed a lot and gave lots of hugs.  It was the perfect experience for my Caleb.  She would take pictures with her IPhone and send them to us via e-mail during the day saying things like "Aren't your children precious?" or "Look how much fun we're having today."  Priceless!  She and I cried when we hugged goodbye.  What a year! 

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    Many of you might remember what a nightmare 2nd grade was for Jacob…and us.

    3rd grade could not have been any more different.  Jacob's teacher, Mrs. Rutter, was what I dream about for my children!  I expected her to sprout angel's wings at any moment.  She was even, calm, collected.  She LOVED the children in her class.  She recognized their strengths and tried to understand their weaknesses.  She was able to give undivided attention to a child while having a group of five vying for her attention.  She was creative and smart and delightful.  And Jacob loved her…respected her mostly and wanted to please her.  He certainly wasn't perfect for her…she would call and visit with me about his quircks and struggles.  His impatience (and borderline disrespect sometimes) for the girls in the class.  His tendency to ignore instruction because he thinks he already knows!  His tendency to bury his nose in a book and ignore the outside world.  We often brainstormed together about ways to help him with those things.  And I loved the gentle way she approached me about him…always complimenting him first.  She told me that she wrote in her personal notes that she thought Jacob would one day be President of the United States.  She was sure of it – and wanted to have a record of it!  She saw in him a tremendous capacity for leadership but also cautioned him that he would have to have compassion along with it if he was to be successful.  Derek and I are so thankful for Melanie Rutter…for her patience, her kindness, her professionalism, her teaching style and her love for our son.  It really was a great year.

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    *Big Deep Sigh* – Is it too much to ask that every year be this good?!  I'll just relish it for what it was, and pray hard for a similar year next year.

  • Despite it being 100+ degrees every single day last week, me, Derek and the big boys had a pretty good time at Cub Scout Twilight Camp.  It's held in the evenings, 4:30 – 8:30, every day for a week.  And our pack made up two walking dens, which means we had a lot of cute boys to play with.  BB shooting, archery, leather stamping, nature projects, wood projects, games, cheers/chants, and lots of fun.  I went Mon – Wed, Derek went on Thurs and Fri.  Caleb went as a papoose and got to eat gatorade snow cones, trade swap 'ems and do crafts…he loves it.  And Samuel got to play with whoever stayed home – which meant one-on-one time at the pool, which he loved.

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  • The big boys just completed an 8-day course of swimming with teenage-instructor Mackenzie.  And what luck to find that our favorite little girls were the only other participants in our session!  Caleb and Lexi swam together, and then Jacob and Megan (the only girl that Jacob can stand to be around).  And I got to visit with Dana every morning – perfect!  Poor Samuel was so sad everyday that he couldn't go "wimmie" (swimming).  But he got a good treat at the end which seemed to pay great dividends (a tootsie pop and a quick dip in the pool to wash off).  My boys are swimming well and have really advanced in their skills – I love that they are not afraid and that they are so confident in the water.

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    The boys with Mackenzie, who did a great job with them.

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    Sidenote: After sitting and watching the boys in the Bowman's beautiful pool for the last two weeks, and observing the thermostat hit 100+ all week, I have decided that I want a pool.  A place for us to host friends, and swim all day everyday in the summer.  So I am now officially saving for a pool – hoping to someday make this lifelong dream a reality.

  • We had a wonderful time in Austin last weekend celebrating my Dad for Father's Day.  We drove down on Thursday night.  On Friday, we walked, parked and swam.  On Saturday, my Dad and Christy rented a pontoon boat for us to cruise around Lake Travis.  What a blast!  We played in the sand, swam, talked wedding dresses with Anne (when the boys were NOT around), ate, lost some valuables, and saw some mighty big catfish.  Then we swam some more at their community pool (where we tried to seriously embarrass ourselves and succeeded!, but didn't really mind).  On Sunday, we all got to hear my Dad preach (sidenote – his church has 4 services over the weekend, so he preached 4 times!, but we only went once).  I always love to hear him and I always learn from his message…it was a treat.  Then Christy hosted a wonderful lunch for all of us.  I enjoy my family so much and especially love carefree weekends such as these to relax and enjoy one another.

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    And, most importantly, we celebrated the Dad's in our lives.  It was wonderful to spend Father's Day with my Dad…those opportunities are rare and treasured.  He is a man of great faith, integrity and love.  I appreciate his insight, his kindness, his generosity and his compassion for my family.  He is adored as "Papa C" by his three grandsons and I adore him too! 

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    We also celebrated sweet Derek – who I appreciate so much as a father.  He is the patriarch of our home and I feel so privileged to have him as my children's dad.  We gave him a "coupon" book from us, full of fun activities and treats that he can redeem throughout the summer.  The boys love him…I love him and we appreciate all he does for our family.

    How sweet is this picture…??

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    And because he will one day soon (say a little prayer) make a fantastic father (and she a magnificent mother), and because they are just so beautiful…here's a pic of my brother and SIL, Michael and Olivia.
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  • Don't get me started on the Jon and Kate saga.  Selfishness.  "Everything we do is for our kids."  Don't. even. get. me. started.

    And then there's the SC governor.  Oh. my.  We have really smart people in office.  That's all I'm gonna say about that.

    Sidenote:  A couple of weeks ago, I was coming home from boot camp at 6:45 a.m. and the radio station I was listening to was talking about the Jon and Kate season opener.  They asked for opinions about it.  So I called and was put on the air.  Selfishness, that sums up my message.  It makes me sad.  I know they are just tv people and that I don't even know them.  But there are eight kids who are losing their family, their parents, their security…all for the sake of tv, and that breaks my heart.

  • This is a VERY long post…intended much more as a history for me, than as a novel for you.  No need to read the whole thing…just look at the pictures! 🙂

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    It's been over a week since coming home from Camp and I am pleased to say that the memories and joy that I felt while there have lingered with me.  Such a fantastic experience.  Such a learning experience.  Such a joyful experience.  And fun.  And faith-filling.  And reaffirming.  And inspiring.  Full of laughs.  Full of hard work.  Full of adventure.  I have always loved Girls Camp with the young women and the leaders.  I probably always will.  But this particular camp will surely go down as one of my all-time favorites.  It was that good.

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    My role was 'Programs Director' – specifically I was over the night-time programs.  Tues, Thurs and Fri night.  Tues night is traditionally "skit" night.  Our theme this year was B.O.O.T. Camp (Building Our Own Testimonies) so I changed it to "cadence" night, asking each ward to do a military-style cadence.  These were fantastic!  Creative, funny, and inspiring all at the same time.  I loved it and it looked like the girls did to.  I also threw in a lot of music, dancing and cheering and it felt like a party (notes for me – song clips to introduce stake leaders, Beyonce's "All the Single Ladies" and the Cupid Shuffle).  We ended that night with Dana and President Dotter giving wonderful devotionals about testimony.

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    Thursday night is traditionally "spiritual" night.  Kristan, Dana and I put together a production called "Women of Light" about women in the scriptures.  It began and ended with the story of the 10 virgins (parable) and included Mary the mother of Christ, sisters Mary and Martha, Abish in the Book of Mormon, Esther, Rebekah, Mary Magdalene, and Emma Smith.  The YCL's (Youth Camp Leaders – ages 16+) were my actresses.  They worked so hard including 3 rehearsals, memorizing lines and listening to my constant barage of instructions.  I felt so strongly that they were to be involved, and in the end they are what made it special.  To see them embrace their roles and really work to portray the spirit of these women made it powerful for all who watched.  All along we would laugh and say that this particular project was AMBITIOUS.  I am not a theater kind of person…never have been.  And this was indeed a theater production – lights, scripts, stage direction, speakers, 5 mics going at different times, slide shows, pictures, video, music, singing – the works!  I have always affirmed that this program was inspired.  I remember where I was when I was inspired to include the parable of the 10 virgins, when I was touched to do something on women in the scriptures, when I found a song and video on Emma Smith (and then had a friend re-work it), when I felt that the YCLs would need to do it, when I found the oil lamps from Jerusalem that we would use (and give to all the YCLs as gifts), when we decided to make necklaces with oil lamp charms for all 200 girls.  And everytime Dana and Kristan and I met I felt that this was inspired.  And that night it was cool, after having been stormy the night before, there were few bugs, after having been super buggy on Tues night, the girls were still and reverent and calm, the A/V equipment worked perfectly, the lights worked even though we hadn't had a chance to practice with them, the oil lamps stayed lit (mostly), the screen (made out of a sheet) worked perfectly after the men decided to put nagahide behind it, the girls remembered their lines and performed it better than they ever had at rehearsal, the costumes all worked, the necklaces were a hit, and the song that all the girls were asked to learn and memorize and sing at the end entitled "Hold Our Torches High" was beautiful and moving.  I was awed and humbled by the whole thing.  I feel that the hand of the Lord was evident and that our Heavenly Father was involved in the details.  I feel blessed to have just been able to play a role in HIS program.

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    Then there was Friday.  One of my duties was to put together the end of week slideshow of pictures for the girls.  I sat on a bench outside in the pavilion (where all of the action happened) for 10 HOURS and sorted and sifted through 2000 pictures for this slideshow.  It was a bigger project than I had anticipated.  But it too ended up great - 16 minutes and a lot of pictures and fun music.  On Friday night, the bishops all come and join us for the last night of camp.  Kristan organized a game for them (a get-to-know-you-better type of thing).  We also had more music, dancing and fun that night.  The Stake YW Presidency bore their own testimonies.  And then we sent each ward to have their own testimony meeting. 

    One of the things I also did all week was the wake-up call every morning for the girls over the speaker system.  I played "reveille", told them to wake up!, and then played Doris Day's "Good Morning".  If you know me well, you know that a microphone in hand has never been hard for me, so waking them up every morning was fun. 

    On Wed night, we got reports of severe storms hitting home.  Parents were calling making sure we were taking precautions.  Luckily we were east of Dallas and had a few hours to prepare.  Decisions were made to bring in a group of girls that were tent camping remotely (lucky for them!).  Then the girls were sent back with their ward leaders to secure their things and sit tight until further notice.  Stake leaders met and discussed the game plan for if we had to take cover and move the girls to more secure locations.  I will always feel gratitude for being counted among the leaders – to be able to watch the priesthood brethren lead out and protect and pray for safety.  When a tornado warning was issued, and the decision was made to bring all 200+ campers and leaders to one of the safest places on the property (the YCL cabin – a grounded steel beamed building), we all ran in the pouring rain to get girls who were spread out in cabins all over the camp.  My job was to go to the office and get on the speaker system and calmly give instructions.  I was out of breath, and admittedly nervous because of the weight of trying to make sure all of these sweet girls were safe and protected.  I was in this safe building, in the dark, talking to these girls and leaders that I loved who were running in pouring rain and rumbling thunder.  I would see their flashlights flickering in the dark as they huddled together trying to get to their destination.  It was moving.  And sobering.  I thought of all the parents back home watching radar and worrying and praying about their little girls.  And then when we all gathered back together and everyone was accounted for, we listened as the girls sang beautifully together – songs of comfort and cheer and prayer.  It reminded me that the song of the righteous is indeed a prayer unto heaven.  I had to keep from crying…no longer because of fear or nervousness because of the storm, but from being awed by the purity and goodness that was before me.  Girls comforting each other, leaders wrapping loving arms around them, priesthood leaders acting assuredly and protectively on our behalf….watching dangerous storms pass our way with no effect.  Knowing that a loving Heavenly Father was watchful and mindful of his daughters.  It was and is one of the great experiences from camp – for everyone involved.

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    And there are so many other little things that I LOVED about camp…

    – sharing a room with Dana and Kristan 

    – getting to know all of the stake leaders better (Jammi, Nikki, Heather, Tami, Kari, Tammy, Julie, Rachel, Janice, Cindy, Karen, Pres Dotter, Pres Alleman, Bro Warner, etc.)

    – playing on the rope swing and giant water slide into the lake…with the YCLs on Monday and in the middle of the night on Friday

    – getting "creamed" with shaving cream on Friday night (thus the water slide in the middle of the night)

    – listening to the bagpipes every morning at flag ceremony

    – water gun/bucket fights with the YCLS, Kristan, Bro Warner and Pres Dotter…staying up WAY too late on Friday night (I think I'm too old for that kind of late night), accidentally hitting Kristan with my water gun

    – laughing at the mic checks done by the stake leaders

    – watching the YCLs (Debbie in particular) lead out when the girls were making tin foil dinners.  I was supposed to be helping but smiled the whole time because I was hardly needed.

    – after the Thurs night program, the "cast" of girls just quietly stood there and lined up while we hugged each one, one by one, thanking them and telling them how well they did.  That was special.

    – some of the YCLs wanting to help me do the wake-up call on Friday morning

    – watching how much fun the girls had with the impromptu Cupid Shuffle, and watching them laugh at the Bishops when they did it

    – seeing the girls wear their necklaces that we gave them on Thurs night; the ribbon, bead and charm that we worked so hard to put together

    – archery competitions with the leaders (I stunk, but really wanted to win, as always)

    – watching the girls just have good ol' fashioned FUN

    – watching from my perch on Friday to see all the girls covered in shaving cream

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    A choice experience for me.  I'm grateful to Derek who took off from work all week to stay with the boys.  They allowed me to go without any inhibitions or hesitation and I love them for it.  It was a big distraction for me for weeks leading up to and even after camp, and my family has supported me through all of it, and I'm grateful.

    The End. 🙂